ROCHESTER — To what degree does a teen’s involvement in youth
ministry carve the path he or she walks as an adult? No scientific
formula exists, but consider how the last decade has evolved for
25-year-old Brian Moroni.
From 1994-96 Moroni served on the Diocesan Youth Committee,
representing St. Cecilia’s Parish in Irondequoit. This coalition of
teens, formed in 1993, dedicates itself to planning diocesan youth
events and taking leadership roles during them.
“My time on DYC has helped me to be the leader I am, as well as
meeting lifelong friends,” said Moroni, who now teaches at James
Madison School in the Rochester City School District.
Moroni and nearly 40 other former DYC members enjoyed a rare
opportunity to connect Aug. 10. Ranging in age from their late teens to
mid 20s, these young Catholics — along with several former adult DYC
representatives who had served in advisory roles — gathered for a
10-year DYC reunion on the final day of the 2003 Diocesan Youth
Gathering in a conference room at the Crowne Plaza Hotel, the DYC
alumni sat in a large circle and, one by one, delivered “where are they
now” reports. Several attendees traveled from out of state. Some are
now married; others have become engaged.
Interestingly, many have begun or are pursuing careers that have a
strong link to ministry: working with troubled youths and the
developmentally disabled; studying public service and theology. Church
ministry, as well, ranks high: Erin McConnell (St. Mary’s, Bath) is
studying youth ministry in college, and Anne Kidera (St. Thomas More,
Brighton), serves as youth minister at Henrietta’s Church of the Good
Shepherd. Among adult DYC alumni, Deborah Housel, a former youth
minister, is now pastoral administrator at St. Michael’s Parish in
Lyons; and Rich Rasmussen has gone from volunteer youth ministry to
taking a full-time position in that field at Ithaca’s Immaculate
Many who attended the reunion said they keep in touch with their DYC
friends, with Moroni likely taking the top prize in that department. He
was introduced to his wife, Kelly, by another DYC alumnus, Megan
Fettinger (Christ the King, Irondequoit). Fettinger served as maid of
honor in the couple’s July 12 wedding at Irondequoit’s St. Margaret
Mary Church. Another DYC alum, Paul Nagy (St. Elizabeth Ann Seton,
Hamlin), was best man.
Along with the biographical updates, DYC alums were asked to share a
favorite memory of their time together. Laughter and smiles filled the
room as attendees recalled playing practical jokes; singing silly
songs; and other good times. Nick Joseph (St. Andrew’s, Rochester)
reminisced about talking with friends deep into the night, then
“staying up until breakfast so the only time to sleep was during the
(program) sessions.” Meanwhile, his sister Megan’s top memory was
“eating breakfast with Bishop Matthew Clark.”
Other people grew sentimental while recalling their DYC days —
including Michael Theisen, diocesan director of youth ministry and
founder of the DYC, who got slightly choked up while expressing his
appreciation for the DYC’s past efforts.
“I really didn’t have a favorite memory. They’re all favorites,”
concluded Dan Kwiecien (St. Mary of the Assumption, Scottsville).
“Every time was the best time,” agreed Pat LaMay (St. Alphonsus,
Auburn). Meanwhile, Brianna Carney (St. Margaret Mary, Irondequoit)
rated her term as a DYC member “the best two years of my life.”
What made these moments so special? Perhaps Margaret Rickard (St.
Louis, Pittsford), who attended the reunion with her sister Kate,
summed it up best. Though happy with her career in the corporate world,
Rickard is wistful about the closeness she enjoyed among her DYC
“The spirit that we all had — you miss it when you go away,” she